You are in love, you have butterflies in your stomach. But at some point your enthusiasm for your lover wanes and suddenly you discover qualities in him that you don't actually think are great. Doubts inevitably arise in you: Isn't he the right one for me? We explain how you can recognize this.\n\n\n\nEverything About Him Bothers You\n\n\n\nOf course, the same applies the other way around: you would actually like to change him, determine his haircut and the length of his beard? You don't like the reason that he's always unpunctual and maybe quite busy? If you can't resist criticizing him, then the worm is in there.\n\n\n\nYou're Not His Number One\n\n\n\nIt happens again and again that he stands you up because a meeting with his buddies got in the way? He keeps saying he doesn't have time for you at the weekend because he has to watch football? If you have troubles or worries, he is never there for you. You just can't count on him. If he doesn't put you among his priorities, better dump him.\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\nEveryone Lives Their Own Life\n\n\n\nPoint is doesn't bother you at all, because it's quite classic for you that everyone does their own thing? If you only see each other rarely and hardly ever miss each other in between, then the love was either never there or has died out in the meantime.\n\n\n\nYou Have To Defend Him In Front Of Your Friends and Family\n\n\n\nYour partner doesn't necessarily have to be a great match for your circle of friends, and they don't have to be on first-name terms with your parents either. But if he can't be integrated into your environment at all, this is a strong indication that he doesn't suit you. In addition, it becomes difficult to lead a harmonious life with him from everything.\n\n\n\nDisinterest\n\n\n\nHe babbles and babbles and actually you don't listen to him? You really don't find his stories that exciting? Conversely, if he isn’t interested in your subjects of conversation either, then you probably don’t find each other that exciting.\n\n\n\nThe Balance Is Not Right\n\n\n\nYou invest a lot more in your relationship than he does? If you care and make an effort, but don't get the same from him, then his interest in you is obviously not that great.\n\n\n\nDifferent Future Plans\n\n\n\nYou have different opinions about living together in the future. Would you like to get married and live in a penthouse in the center while he is more drawn to the marriage? It's going to be difficult with the two of you.\n\n\n\nIf one of the points applies to you, then of course that doesn't mean that you have to put an end to your relationship immediately. But if you can put a tick next to several of the them listed above, you should listen carefully to yourself: Are you happy or unhappy most of the time?